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Born in Rome and shaped by more than 25 years in New York City, Luca brings Italian warmth, poetic depth, and a joyful, big-hearted presence into every ceremony he leads. For him, learning a couple’s story and guiding them into this new chapter is nothing short of magic. Luca believes partnership is one of life’s rarest treasures and a gift that deserves to be honored with intention, honesty, and joy. After marrying his own partner of 19 years, he carries a deep understanding that there is no “right time” to formalize love... only your time.

Joyful Lu

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He/Him, She/Her

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A poetic soul in fabulous shoes ・ A poetic soul in fabulous shoes ・ A poetic soul in fabulous shoes ・ A poetic soul in fabulous shoes ・ A poetic soul in fabulous shoes ・ A poetic soul in fabulous shoes ・ A poetic soul in fabulous shoes ・ A poetic soul in fabulous shoes ・

"How do you make a ceremony feel personal and real,
even when you’ve just met a couple?"

"My natural curiosity and sincere, heartfelt care for others allow me to be completely present and attuned to their dynamic. I approach every meeting with the simple goal of being a safe, joyful space for the couple to tell their story, which allows the ceremony to be fully authentic and real, even on the day we meet in person."

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With Joyful Lu, couples immediately feel seen, welcomed, and held. His curiosity and generous spirit make space for people to be fully themselves.

Self-expression, especially through fashion, is one of his greatest joys. His outfits are never an afterthought; they’re chosen with intention to complement the couple, enhance the ceremony’s aesthetic, and bring a little extra celebration into the room.

Above all, he believes love is the highest form of energy, and every ceremony he leads is a joyful testament to that truth.

A lover of love

Before officiating weddings, Luca spent his life immersed in connection through community, performance, and a personality that has always found its fullest expression in New York. The city’s beautiful chaos, theatrical spirit, and unexpected tenderness mirror the way he approaches ceremonies: honest, emotional, joy-filled, and always centered on what makes each couple uniquely themselves.

Joyful Lu brings a signature blend of fierce heart, authenticity, and celebratory energy to every union. His ceremony style is expressive, poetic, and intentionally crafted -- filled with meaningful language, lighthearted moments, and rituals that reflect the couple’s bond.