The Ultimate NYC Elopement Style Guide: What to Wear in 2025 for Every Season & Aesthetic

A guide to looking iconic on your elopement day.

What you wear on your wedding day should feel like you. Not like you’re dressing up for someone else’s expectations.

For couples choosing to elope in New York City, that often means letting go of outdated traditions and embracing a style that reflects who they are now. Not who their aunt thinks they should be. Not what a big-box bridal shop has on sale. And definitely not what a wedding magazine calls “timeless.”

Whether you’re envisioning a tulle explosion in DUMBO, a velvet suit in Central Park, or a secondhand lace mini on the steps of the MET, this guide was made for you.

Why Your Elopement Look Matters More Than Ever

Here, we’re not saying “yes to the dress”. We are Eloping Is FUN, and we’re saying yes to freedom. Yes to expression. Yes to outfits that make you feel powerful, radiant, grounded, playful, bold, and whatever your version of iconic looks like.

We’ve pulled together indie designers, inclusive brands, and seasonal styling tips that celebrate individuality over tradition. From queer-owned labels to size-inclusive creators, from moody romance to maximalist sparkle, this guide will help you show up in a look that’s as bold as the city where you’re saying your vows.

Because when you’re eloping in New York, the city that makes its own rules, your outfit should match the energy.

When you’re not spending tens of thousands on a traditional wedding, you get to put your resources where it really counts: like into a look that makes you feel electric. 

An NYC elopement is spontaneous, intimate, and wildly personal. Your outfit should be too.

This is your chance to wear something you’ve always dreamed about, but maybe didn’t think you could “pull off.”

Spoiler: You can. We promise.

Our Favorite Wedding Designers for Eloping in NYC

Betsey Johnson

Known for playful, punk-influenced designs and plenty of sparkle, Betsy Johnson is for the bride who wants to party from SoHo to the subway. Her looks are bold, affordable, and full of personality.
Explore Betsey Johnson

Grace Loves Lace

Australian-born, now US-based, Grace Loves Lace is synonymous with effortless boho luxury. Think flowing fabrics, unexpected silhouettes, and handmade gowns that are made to move.
Shop Grace Loves Lace

Madison Chamberlain Veils

This Philly-based, woman-owned brand specializes in non-traditional wedding dresses and accessories. Inclusive sizing, ethical production, and custom designs make it a standout for conscious brides.
Discover Madison Chamberlain

Pantora Bridal

A Brooklyn-based, Black-owned bridal label redefining elegance with body-hugging silhouettes and gowns made for all skin tones and sizes. Pantora is unapologetically bold and inclusive.
View Pantora Bridal

Odylyne The Ceremony

Based in LA, this designer offers ethereal, editorial-style gowns for dramatic entrances and cinematic exits. These are statement dresses for people who love high fashion with depth.
Explore Odylyne

Selkie

With puff sleeves, corsets, and fairytale silhouettes, Selkie creates clothing for dreamers. Their bridal collection includes sizes XXS to 6X, with styles that feel like folklore come to life.
Shop Selkie Bridal

LuvLuvDress on Etsy

This Ukraine-based shop crafts custom black wedding gowns that are dramatic, romantic, and perfect for moody elopements in the city.
Browse LuvLuvDress

Ulla Johnson

A New York City staple. While not traditionally bridal, Ulla’s “For the Bride” collection features elevated, fashion-forward pieces for the nontraditional dresser.
See Ulla’s Bridal Edit

Loeffler Randall

Brooklyn-born and women-owned, this label offers everything from pleated heels to silk gowns. Distinctive and versatile, their pieces are made in small batches with thoughtful detail.
Shop Loeffler Randall

Men’s Style

Gone are the days when men were stuck with one black tux option. Whether you’re looking for a sharp suit, something colorful, or a totally unexpected twist, these designers bring style and individuality to the table.

Indochino

Made-to-measure suits with customizable features, fabrics, and linings. Great for grooms, nonbinary folks, or anyone who wants something structured and intentional.
Visit Indochino

Bindle & Keep

Brooklyn-based and queer-owned, this brand specializes in custom suiting for all genders and body types. Featured in HBO’s Suited, they’re redefining what menswear means.
Explore Bindle & Keep

Sharpe Suiting

Gender-neutral formalwear that skips gender norms entirely. Their motto: “Wear what fits you.” Custom options for masculine-of-center, trans, and nonbinary bodies.
Visit Sharpe Suiting

Scotch & Soda

A high-style option for statement pieces. Great for accessories, jackets, or full lewks with a little European flair.
Shop Scotch & Soda

ASOS

The men’s occasion wear section is full of velvet blazers, printed suits, and fashion-forward pieces. It’s budget-friendly, too!
Explore ASOS Men

Queer-Owned and Gender-Inclusive Brands

Wildfang

A trailblazer in gender-neutral fashion, Wildfang offers everything from suiting to styling ideas. Made for tomboys, femmes, and everyone in between.
Explore Wildfang

TomboyX

Start with what’s underneath. TomboyX makes underwear and basics for all bodies and all gender expressions.
Shop TomboyX

Kirrin Finch

Creating button-downs, vests, and tailored suits for female and nonbinary bodies. No awkward gaping, no weird fits, just sharp style that feels right.
Visit Kirrin Finch

Stuzo Clothing

A gender-free fashion house based in Los Angeles. Loud, expressive, and proud.
See Stuzo Styles

Shoes, Accessories, and Final Touches

• Loeffler Randall (yes, again!) makes shoes so beautiful you’ll want to wear them every anniversary forever.
• Veils from Madison Chamberlain are a fan fave, but if you’re more into vintage, we love scouring Etsy or Depop for one-of-a-kind tulle treasures.
• Corsets and veils from Selkie if you want to feel like a fairytale villainess (in a good way).
• Jewelry? Go thrift it, babe. Or support indie shops like Catbird NYC for sweet sparkle with serious NYC glam-girl energy.
• Tons of our couples splurge on customized accessories and let me tell you, it is SO WORTH IT!! 👇

Into Thrifting? Try These

We love a sustainable queen. TikTok recently introduced us to BrideHack, a secondhand bridal treasure trove that caters to eco-conscious brides looking for pre-loved gowns. It’s got vintage gems, designer deals, and a killer community vibe.

Also worth a scroll:

• Poshmark – for affordable designer finds
• Stillwhite – resale platform for high-end gowns
• Facebook Marketplace – chaotic but occasionally magic

Shop by Aesthetic

Romantic: Selkie, Grace Loves Lace, Loeffler Randall

City Chic: Ulla Johnson, Indochino, minimal jumpsuits from ASOS

Goth or Alternative: LuvLuvDress, Pantora Bridal, Odylyne

Playful and Colorful: Betsy Johnson, Wildfang, Stuzo

NYC Elopement Style by Season

What to wear when the city’s mood (and weather) changes every three blocks.

One of the best things about eloping in NYC is that it’s always in season… literally. Whether you’re saying your vows under cherry blossoms, fall leaves, summer sunsets, or flurries of snow, there’s no wrong time to get married in the city. That’s why your outfit needs to work with the weather, not against it.

Here’s how to style your elopement look so you feel comfortable, confident, and camera-ready no matter what the forecast says.

Spring: Soft Layers & Wildcard Weather

New York in the spring is unpredictable, but in the best way. You might get blue skies and blossoms, or light rain and brisk wind. The key is layering.

What to wear:

• Tulle skirts with cropped jackets or structured blazers
• Lightweight suits with floral prints or pastels
• Dresses with sleeves (or a shawl you’ll actually want to keep on)
• Romantic textures like chiffon, silk organza, or lace
• Closed-toe shoes or boots in case it’s muddy

Pro tip: 

Pack a chic umbrella! It may double as a prop and your best accessory. And yes, trench coats over wedding dresses are not only allowed… they’re iconic.

Summer: Minimal Layers, Maximum Impact

Summer elopements in NYC are sweaty, sticky, and stunning — as long as you dress smart. The subway might feel like a sauna, but the rooftops? Pure magic.

What to wear:

• Linen suits or matching sets
• Lightweight midi dresses, slips, or mesh minis
• Rompers and jumpsuits in breathable fabrics
• Statement veils or accessories instead of heavy gowns
• Sandals, sneakers, or low-block heels

What to avoid:

• Polyester and other synthetic fabrics (unless you want pit stains in your photos)
• Anything too tight or difficult to move around in

Pro tips:

Updos and dewy makeup are your best friends. And remember: NYC loves bold color in the summer. Hot pinks, citrus tones, and vibrant blues all pop on camera and look amazing against the city’s concrete and brick.

Fall: Rich Colors and Layered Looks

Fall might just be NYC’s most romantic season. The leaves in Central Park are showing off, the air is crisp, and everyone looks 25% more stylish. 😂

What to wear:

• Velvet gowns, jewel-toned suits, or brocade fabrics
• Long-sleeved dresses, midi skirts with tall boots
• Stylish coats, leather or denim jackets
• Golds and metallics

Pro tips:

This is the season to go full editorial. Play with textures. Layer a floor-length veil over a leather jacket. Swap out stilettos for boots with some bite. The light is golden, the city is glowing. Lean into the drama.

Winter: Bold Layers & Snow Queen Energy

Winter elopements are cold, yes, but they’re also wildly romantic. Snowy cobblestone streets and candlelit restaurants make for dreamy photos if you bundle up right.

What to wear:

• Vintage fur coats, floor-length capes, or cozy cashmere wraps
• Long-sleeve gowns in heavier fabrics like velvet or satin
• Tights, thermals, or fleece-lined leggings (under your look — no one will see!)
• Statement boots or winterized platforms 👇

Accessories that matter:

• Gloves, fur hats and earmuffs, hand warmers (yes, you can make them cute)
• Bold lipstick or shimmer to stand out against grey skies

Pro tips:

Choose outerwear you actually want to be photographed in. A glamorous coat can be just as memorable as your outfit underneath. And if you’re doing photos before or after the ceremony, plan a warm-up break (maybe even with spiked cider or a cozy bar stop).

Don’t Forget the Pup of Honor: Serving Looks & Tail Wags

Your elopement look isn’t complete without your four-legged plus-one dressed for the occasion! We’ve seen pups in bow ties, floral collars, pearl leashes, and even tiny custom tuxedos — and they always steal the show.

Pro tip:

Match your dog’s outfit to your color palette for instant photo magic. Bonus points if they coordinate with your bouquet.

Your Day-Of Style Checklist

• Your full outfit, shoes, and backups
• Comfortable shoes for walking
• Weather-appropriate outerwear
• Makeup touch-up kit or travel size essentials
• Hair pins, veil clips, or headpieces
• Jewelry and accessories
• Vows if handwritten
• Fashion tape and safety pins
• Water and snacks
• Umbrella or parasol
• Sunglasses (you’ll feel like a celeb)

Final Tips for Choosing Your Elopement Look

Forget what you’ve been told about what a wedding outfit “should” be.

Ask yourself:

• What do I feel powerful in?
• What do I feel hot in?
• What outfit makes me feel most like me?
• What do I want to remember when I look back at photos in 20 years?

You don’t have to wear white.

You don’t have to wear a dress.

In fact… You don’t have to wear anything that makes you feel like you’re performing a role.

Wear something that makes you want to dance down the sidewalk.

That’s what an NYC elopement is all about. 

We’re just here to help you feel seen, celebrated, and ridiculously cute along the way.

Need help choosing a location or outfit?

Take our NYC Elopement Quiz to find your perfect spot, or reach out and we’ll help you build a look that feels iconic!